Nary a day passes when I don’t wish that I had posted something new here on the parka-butt blog. This is more evidence that my ambitions don’t produce the fruit that one generally hopes for when they think of their personal character and discipline.
Discipline is for unruly toddlers and training circus poodles. Duh.
When C and I first got married and I was jobless, cat-less, and moderately hopeless, I tried to teach myself to play the guitar (something I still wish I could do), in hopes of creating some sort of personal forward-movement. My string-picking days lasted for, well… let’s just say that my fingertips didn't even have enough time to calluses over.
When I was in college, I held to a pretty consistent workout schedule. Sound like willpower? It does, doesn’t it? That is, until you realize that I did this in order to eat vast mountains of ice cream with my roommates and regularly down a half-dozen Krispy Kreme donuts by myself. (mixed selection, if you’re wondering). Oh - I also beat my now-husband in an eating contest at White Castle, just in case this point needed reinforcement.
Mind if I finish that?
Now that I think of it, when I was in high school, I actually had quite a bit more perseverance than I do now, which is to really say that my character has taken a serious nosedive since the age of 15.
I started playing JV basketball as a freshman – I’m still not sure why – and I never stopped. I hated basketball. I was consumed in hot, angry tears over it on more occasions that I dare admit, but still, I just couldn’t quit. For all you 8th graders out there, this is NOT a way to spend four years. To make matters worse, I was awful: an elbow-swinging, freakishly terrified-of-the-basket, rule-violating madwoman with a mouth guard the size of a boomerang.
As we say amongst our friends, I was the show.
But at least I wasn't this guy.
I dated a young man in high school for a couple of years who was a relational train wreck, and gave him far too many chances for far too long. I still don’t know if he was actually in it for my anxious, antisocial personality – it could have been my boomerang wielding face and cool wardrobe (read: a fair amount of dad’s military-issue clothing) that reeled him in - but for some reason, I didn’t mind that he went out with other girls and stole stuff.
Fortunately, this young mustang grew up to be a pretty great guy (and was actually fairly kind, considering he was a hound at the time and I was afraid of the general populace), so I still consider this episode a win-win.
These days, I quit half-way through almost everything, from putting on makeup (quickly translates to putting on mascara) to reading books and completing projects. In fact, I just started a wall-hanging project yesterday, so you can start making your wagers on whether or not I finish.
My money’s on the other guy.